Top tips for moving with young children

Top tips for making your move easier for the whole family.

Start with an open conversation
Before any packing begins, sit down as a family to talk about the move. Explain to young children why you are moving and the changes that will happen. It’s important to share the excitement about the new home and talk about the things that will stay the same, such as friends, routine, and favourite belongings. A bigger garden, a more spacious bedroom, or a fun park nearby, will give children something to look forward to.

Make the move visual and interactive
Young children may struggle to comprehend the change. Create a scrapbook of photos or drawings of your new home to help them picture it. Label boxes with pictures or toys, clothes and kitchen bits so that little ones can sort pack their own items. This helps to boost their involvement in the move.

Create a special moving box
Creating a special box filled with comfort items can help go one step further. Toys, books, colouring pencils and snacks. Children can help fill the special box, and it will keep them calm and entertained on moving day, as well as in the first few days at the new place. Having familiar items close will help them settle quickly and feel more secure.

Maintain regular routines
A move can disrupt regular routines such as bedtimes and mealtimes. Try to maintain these, both during the move and in your new home. Familiar routines help children feel safe in unfamiliar circumstances.

Get your child excited about the new area
Plan a family outing to explore the new neighbourhood. Visit parks, playgrounds, cafes and shops. Aim to create some positive first memories. Even a quick walk to say hello to new neighbours helps ease the transition.

Celebrate the move
Mark the move with a small family ritual. It might be planting some flowers in the new garden or a family take-away on your first night. These meaningful moments help reinforce the message that change can be exciting!